When dawn knocks…

Sometimes it is dark in the morning,
Sometimes we feel worthless,
Rejection makes us think we are losers,
It makes us blame ourselves for things we didn’t do,
We cry over spilt milk,
We tie ourselves in handcuffs,
We do those unnecessary things for the wrong reasons,
And for teh wrong people.

Life is meant to be beautiful,
That does not mean it will always be rosy,
But we have to learn to enjoy the good days as they come,
The bad says as they are.
We are just supposed to be strong enough to face the mountains,
Strong enough to different,
Strong enough to stand up for ourselves,
Because when it rains t pours.

We should only learn to handle the bad days in the right ways……

A walk in the dark..

The skeletons can’t be hidden too much,
That’s why there is day and night,
That things done in darkness will be revealed,
Do not struggle,
They will unfold effortlessly,
Because such is life.

I really wish I could write a sensible article,
One that someone could relate to,
One that someone could refer to later,
But some wishes remain just that,
Because such is life.

This post is just an explanation of insomnia,
Because it really doesn’t mean nothing.
And who walks in the dark anyway?People just sleep.

PS:Sorry for a meaningless post *wink

The deal breaker!

Compatibility is like an island in the desert,
Compatibility is like rain in the driest of places,
Compatibility is a rare quality tough to match,
Compatibility is like an unsung song,
Incompatibility is an enemy of emotional stability.


Incompatibility is the answer to brokenness,
Incompatibility is the darkness in that soul,
Incompatibility is the cause of many separations,
Inompatibility is the answer to many unasked questions,
Incompatibility is an enemy of emotional stability.


Incompatiblility is the daily routine of broken people,
Broken because they loved someone whom they are incompatible,
Broken because they consider it wasted time,
Broken because they are incompatible,
Because incompatibility is an enemy of emotional progress.


As days go by,
You learn that finding a compatible partner,
Could be more tasking than rocket science,
And when found they reject you,
They settle for another incompatible mate,
And later live a life of regrets,
Because incompatibility is an enemy of emotional progress.


There are days that feel hearty,

While some days feel lonely,

They feel long and boring,

Others Segregated and very thoughtful,

Days when satan is very alert,

Such things happen on this days.


The book you are reading becomes long,

It becomes boring,

It becomes meaningless,

turning pages becomes a task,

Evil thoughts crowd your mind,

Such things happen on this days.


The old friends never to be recycled come to mind,

the thought of rekindling old flames comes,

Your once lost love memories come alive,

Your ilde mind takes you to your past,

Your days are longer than ever,

Such things happen on this days.


The days you lose yourself,

You do things you’d swear never to go back to.

You forget the good things that life ever offered to you,

You roar like a lion in regrets,

You pressed a backward journey,

Such things happen on this days.


Good things happen at your worst,

when you feel lost,

When you feel overwhelmed by repeating mistakes,

The wake up call moment happens,

The turn around moment when you realize you were born for bigger things,

Such things happen on this days.



The bachata dancer.

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Faith is the belief in things unseen, hopefully my belief in being a biker soon despite lacking skills falls under that category. There is a reason why I have no biking skills, God knew that the world would be in trouble if by now I owned a superbike, I would add that title to my introduction. I would definitely stop traffic, you know! My intro line wouldn’t be something short of “I am a woman, a biker, a bachata dancer” see, but from all this let us just say for now the only thing I am sure of is that I am a woman.

Now I know you ran to look up what is bachata dance but, do not bother because I am not done yet. I will introduce you to semba, merengue, chacha and such like things. Thank me for teaching you new words, but before you do so, thank the one who taught me.

This guy never used the word “biker” in his introduction, I mean, I am still offended. If i had the slightest idea of what to do after wearing the helmet, you would know no peace, you would be cursing the one who imparted the skills in me, you would be praying it rains so that i can give up, you would be terrorized by the lady biker. Whereas I can win a contest for the most unfit and also the one who really floats in unhealthy eating, he is the opposite. He is as flexible as a what? (someone remind me), he is a dancer, a body fitness instructor, he is a biker who is quite familiar with the highway, a body fitness writer and he also cooks. Finding a man who can cook teriyaki chicken in the millennial is quite a task, but search no more!

He breathes fitness, spells fitness and is just fitness itself!The man who addresses ladies as “woman” loudly and the man who exclaims at people’s inability to make some really calculated dance moves. If I woke up that flexible, I would run to the hospital for check up I must admit. I would imagine the gods are angry, I would say all the prayers I ever learnt along the way, I think none is allowed to be that fit, but what do I know?

Are you wondering why I am not a biker, why i am not a fit woman who hits the gym like her life depends on it, while im not a strict healthy eating advisor or a chacha dancer?Wonder no more, just don’t envy me but go ahead and make keeping fit your goal or follow this simple instruction to achieve your desired look http://wagude.wordpress.com

When I train on the chacha dance, we shall gather here for the do’s and don’ts. Meanwhile enjoy your reads on body fitness.

Tales of a forgiving woman!

I had many dreams, and among them was to be your number one fan, your go to friend, your cheerleader and your all round woman. We shared our dreams, we had late nights, just talking and cuddling, we wished nights away with laughter. Sometimes, we could afford nothing to eat, but we still clung to our love. Year in year out, we stayed in patience, hoping for better days to unfold. Hope was our best friend.

I had never visited the lakeside, this was my long time wish but thanks to you my love, for giving me a deserved sixth anniversary gift. Many years have passed and the only real surprise i get is just running out of gas, but you changed the story, you took me to the lakeside. Remember how excited we were?

Never in our friendship have we ever taken so many photos together, but in just one night, we could decorate the universe with our anniversary photos. The candle lit dinner was one of a kind, remember the traditional dancers? Remember how you got on one knee while the female dancer was beside you?This was well though out, well executed, you outdid yourself my love.

But why did you have to suffer planning all this then give me another surprise of impregnating my best friend? I want to feel betrayed but you know what, i am still the strong woman you met. I would really have wished to say i would never love again, but look here boo boo, i found him, and he found me, we found each other.

I was writing this to remind you that, that baby was not an accident, so love her as much as you loved me, but never betray her as a dad.I wanted to let you know that i forgave you, i moved on to greater heights, where candle lit dinners never have to wait for six years, where road trips to the lakeside are not arranged after six years, where dinner dates are a norm, photo shoots are our daily life, where betrayal is never in action, i wish you well. I wish you happiness as you raise your “accidental” daughter. I hope you will never have to go on guilt trips, because as we know cheating is a choice.

As you plan an anniversary for her in the next five years, probably you could come for suggestions, because so far we have toured the country enough, and in six years we shall probably have lost count of times we have been to the lakeside, and lake sides and just name it.

I realized the six years were not wasted, i did not get what i wanted, but i learnt the lessons that i never wanted.See maybe she is innocent, you told her i am nagging, or maybe i am still a virgin and i never gave gave in to your advances because i wanted a white wedding. She does not know that you called me pet names for six years, but i never bore you a child, i met your mother though, but her dream of having me a her daughter in law drowned in just one of your sexual adventures, see i loved you, and i am not sure i still don’t but as they say such is life.

It is never a dull moment thinking of our past, because we created memories.I cling to them when i want to curse you but see i forgave because i learnt that those who forgive are the strongest. I am never a dull woman though, he came, he lit up my life! I do not mean to make you jealous, but the pain turned to laughter and soon it will turn to happily ever after.

I know baby is all grown and you are probably busy searching for kindergartens, i will get my white wedding as i always wished. I will only have to remind you of one more thing, that it was good while it lasted. I might tell the world our secrets but will never let any day be a dark day. I was just passing by to say hi!