Of Life and happenings..

When you wake up, a million things go through your mind.The cliche phrase is wake up with and for a purpose and such like things, but sometimes we just wake up and realize “ooohh i made it to Friday!”You know!Such is life. Sometimes you wake up thinking of people who forgot you exist, others you’ll wake up wondering why you are not in the rich gang list.

There are days you wake up to the realization that the biggest you are known is around the walls of your company, lol!Yes, that’s actually a reality.
Sometimes you wake up wondering who will cry when you die?Well, that one shelf it, it doesn’t really matter.You won’t even know if they are fighting over the fifteen thousands that you left in your account before securing a spot for you in the mogue, so relax.If noone cries, that is fine.It’s their loss, you’ll be breathless, right?
Sometimes, when you look at how death is snatching people unexpectedly, you wake up and write such a meaningless article, wondering how would my friends eulogize me?You even think of setting up your prefuneral and see who’ll turn up and what they’d say you know.You know, noone will write the truth like, “she was greedy, a narcissist, selfish pauper or something.Noone will be honest in any eulogy and say, “we’ll actually forget you before we bury you, or remember you owe me five hundred shillings and the luminous dress you borrowed for your turn ups, you know?”
So they point is, when you wake up, just don’t waste your time thinking of people who will not even be honest in your eulogy.Live and let live!

See you soon..
PS:I am not dying any soon don’t panic!


When dawn knocks…

Sometimes it is dark in the morning,
Sometimes we feel worthless,
Rejection makes us think we are losers,
It makes us blame ourselves for things we didn’t do,
We cry over spilt milk,
We tie ourselves in handcuffs,
We do those unnecessary things for the wrong reasons,
And for the wrong people.

Life is meant to be beautiful,
That does not mean it will always be rosy,
But we have to learn to enjoy the good days as they come,
The bad says as they are.
We are just supposed to be strong enough to face the mountains,
Strong enough to be different,
Strong enough to stand up for ourselves,
Because when it rains it pours.

We should only learn to handle the bad days in the right ways……

A walk in the dark..

The skeletons can’t be hidden too much,
That’s why there is day and night,
That things done in darkness will be revealed,
Do not struggle,
They will unfold effortlessly,
Because such is life.

I really wish I could write a sensible article,
One that someone could relate to,
One that someone could refer to later,
But some wishes remain just that,
Because such is life.

This post is just an explanation of insomnia,
Because it really doesn’t mean nothing.
And who walks in the dark anyway?People just sleep.

PS:Sorry for a meaningless post *wink

The deal breaker!

Compatibility is like an island in the desert,
Compatibility is like rain in the driest of places,
Compatibility is a rare quality tough to match,
Compatibility is like an unsung song,
Incompatibility is an enemy of emotional stability.


Incompatibility is the answer to brokenness,
Incompatibility is the darkness in that soul,
Incompatibility is the cause of many separations,
Inompatibility is the answer to many unasked questions,
Incompatibility is an enemy of emotional stability.


Incompatiblility is the daily routine of broken people,
Broken because they loved someone whom they are incompatible,
Broken because they consider it wasted time,
Broken because they are incompatible,
Because incompatibility is an enemy of emotional progress.


As days go by,
You learn that finding a compatible partner,
Could be more tasking than rocket science,
And when found they reject you,
They settle for another incompatible mate,
And later live a life of regrets,
Because incompatibility is an enemy of emotional progress.


There are days that feel hearty,

While some days feel lonely,

They feel long and boring,

Others Segregated and very thoughtful,

Days when satan is very alert,

Such things happen on this days.


The book you are reading becomes long,

It becomes boring,

It becomes meaningless,

turning pages becomes a task,

Evil thoughts crowd your mind,

Such things happen on this days.


The old friends never to be recycled come to mind,

the thought of rekindling old flames comes,

Your once lost love memories come alive,

Your ilde mind takes you to your past,

Your days are longer than ever,

Such things happen on this days.


The days you lose yourself,

You do things you’d swear never to go back to.

You forget the good things that life ever offered to you,

You roar like a lion in regrets,

You pressed a backward journey,

Such things happen on this days.


Good things happen at your worst,

when you feel lost,

When you feel overwhelmed by repeating mistakes,

The wake up call moment happens,

The turn around moment when you realize you were born for bigger things,

Such things happen on this days.



The bachata dancer.

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Faith is the belief in things unseen, hopefully my belief in being a biker soon despite lacking skills falls under that category. There is a reason why I have no biking skills, God knew that the world would be in trouble if by now I owned a superbike, I would add that title to my introduction. I would definitely stop traffic, you know! My intro line wouldn’t be something short of “I am a woman, a biker, a bachata dancer” see, but from all this let us just say for now the only thing I am sure of is that I am a woman.

Now I know you ran to look up what is bachata dance but, do not bother because I am not done yet. I will introduce you to semba, merengue, chacha and such like things. Thank me for teaching you new words, but before you do so, thank the one who taught me.

This guy never used the word “biker” in his introduction, I mean, I am still offended. If i had the slightest idea of what to do after wearing the helmet, you would know no peace, you would be cursing the one who imparted the skills in me, you would be praying it rains so that i can give up, you would be terrorized by the lady biker. Whereas I can win a contest for the most unfit and also the one who really floats in unhealthy eating, he is the opposite. He is as flexible as a what? (someone remind me), he is a dancer, a body fitness instructor, he is a biker who is quite familiar with the highway, a body fitness writer and he also cooks. Finding a man who can cook teriyaki chicken in the millennial is quite a task, but search no more!

He breathes fitness, spells fitness and is just fitness itself!The man who addresses ladies as “woman” loudly and the man who exclaims at people’s inability to make some really calculated dance moves. If I woke up that flexible, I would run to the hospital for check up I must admit. I would imagine the gods are angry, I would say all the prayers I ever learnt along the way, I think none is allowed to be that fit, but what do I know?

Are you wondering why I am not a biker, why i am not a fit woman who hits the gym like her life depends on it, while im not a strict healthy eating advisor or a chacha dancer?Wonder no more, just don’t envy me but go ahead and make keeping fit your goal or follow this simple instruction to achieve your desired look http://wagude.wordpress.com

When I train on the chacha dance, we shall gather here for the do’s and don’ts. Meanwhile enjoy your reads on body fitness.